Charlie
ADHD, neurodivergence, EMDR, trauma, chronic pain, identity, burnout, and nervous-system concerns.
Meet Charlie →You may know something doesn’t feel right, even if you’re not sure what to call it. Explore experiences and challenges we support at Théla, and find a therapist who may be a good fit.
We look beyond labels to understand your experiences, strengths, relationships, and what matters to you.
Explore Areas of Concern →Mental health experiences rarely fit neatly into one category. Anxiety may overlap with ADHD. Trauma may shape relationships. Burnout can resemble depression. Longstanding patterns of emotion and attachment can be difficult to untangle alone.
At Théla, we take an individualized, collaborative approach. You do not need a diagnosis—or the right words—to begin a conversation.
Choose a category to read about common experiences and the clinicians who may support you.
Anxiety, depression, burnout and self-esteem
ADHD, masking, burnout and neurodivergent teens
PTSD, complex trauma and nervous-system concerns
Personality disorders, BPD, identity and relationship patterns
Substance use, recovery and relapse prevention
Attachment, couples therapy and family relationships
LGBTQ+ affirming care, identity and transitions
Pregnancy, postpartum and parenthood
Chronic pain and persistent physical symptoms
Grief, loss and major life changes
Creative approaches within psychotherapy
You may recognize yourself in several categories—or none completely. Therapy can help you explore the connections between your experiences without needing to arrive with all the answers.
Anxiety can look like constant overthinking, anticipating what might go wrong, difficulty relaxing, physical tension, irritability, perfectionism, or feeling as though your mind never really switches off.
Sometimes anxiety is obvious. Other times, you’re functioning well on the outside while using enormous amounts of energy to stay on top of everything internally.
Charlie works with anxiety where it intersects with ADHD, neurodivergence, and nervous-system dysregulation.
Jennifer draws on solution-focused and existential approaches, including support for OCD-related patterns.
Student therapists Patricia and Ciaran also support adults aged 18 and older with anxiety and worry through our Affordable Therapy Program.
Lina offers individual psychotherapy for anxiety, including concerns connected with relationships, attachment, and difficult life experiences. Sessions are available in English and Chinese.
Depression doesn’t always look like being unable to get out of bed.
It can show up as exhaustion, numbness, irritability, loss of motivation, disconnection, self-criticism, difficulty enjoying things, or simply feeling as though you’re moving through life without really being part of it.
Therapy can help you understand what’s contributing to the way you’re feeling while gradually rebuilding connection, meaning, motivation, and emotional capacity.
Charlie may be a good fit when depression intersects with neurodivergence, burnout, chronic stress, or trauma.
Jennifer may be a good fit when low mood intersects with substance use, recovery, or difficulty coping with overwhelming emotions.
Student therapist Patricia supports adults experiencing depression and low mood, including when it’s connected to stress, life transitions, or cultural adjustment, in English or Portuguese.
Lina supports people experiencing depression and low mood, including emotional difficulties associated with grief, relationships, and life transitions.
Maybe you’re still functioning, but it’s taking everything you have.
Burnout can show up as exhaustion, irritability, difficulty concentrating, emotional numbness, physical tension, reduced motivation, or feeling increasingly unable to tolerate demands you once managed.
Charlie may be particularly suited to burnout connected with neurodivergence, chronic stress, physical symptoms, or nervous-system dysregulation.
Student therapists Patricia and Ciaran support adults aged 18 and older with everyday stress and overwhelm. Patricia focuses on life pressures and transitions, and Ciaran on stress connected with ADHD, perfectionism, and people-pleasing.
You may appear capable and confident while privately questioning whether you’re good enough.
Low self-esteem can show up through perfectionism, people-pleasing, comparison, difficulty receiving criticism, fear of disappointing others, or feeling as though your worth depends on how well you’re performing.
Student therapist Ciaran helps adult clients explore the beliefs and experiences underneath these patterns while developing a more stable relationship with themselves.
ADHD is about more than attention.
It can affect motivation, task initiation, organization, emotional regulation, relationships, self-esteem, time management, and the amount of effort required to do things that seem to come easily to everyone else.
Charlie offers neurodivergent-affirming therapy when ADHD intersects with trauma, masking, burnout, nervous-system dysregulation, or other neurodivergent experiences.
Student therapist Ciaran works with ADHD alongside anxiety, self-esteem, perfectionism, and life transitions, and may be a good fit for adults aged 18 and older looking for an affordable starting point.
Therapy isn’t about forcing your brain to work like someone else’s. It’s about understanding how yours works and finding strategies that fit.
Years of masking, adapting, pushing through sensory or social overwhelm, or trying to meet expectations designed around someone else’s nervous system can be exhausting.
Therapy can provide space to understand your needs, identity, emotional patterns, sensory experiences, relationships, and the impact of navigating environments that may not have been designed with neurodivergence in mind.
Charlie works primarily with neurodivergent adults.
Bonny also works with neurodivergent adolescents and their families.
Adolescence can already involve major changes in identity, relationships, independence, and emotional intensity. Neurodivergence can add another layer when a teen is navigating masking, sensory needs, school demands, social expectations, emotional regulation, or feeling fundamentally misunderstood.
Bonny works with neurodivergent teens and can also involve families when appropriate to support communication, understanding, boundaries, and changing family dynamics.
Sometimes an experience is over, but your mind or body continues responding as though the danger is still present.
Trauma can show up through intrusive memories, nightmares, avoidance, hypervigilance, emotional numbness, dissociation, difficulty trusting others, strong physical reactions, or feeling constantly on guard.
Charlie specializes in trauma-informed work incorporating EMDR, somatic and nervous-system approaches, IFS, and attachment-based therapy.
Bonny works particularly with complex trauma, attachment wounds, dissociation, emotional dysregulation, and trauma that intersects with relationships or BPD.
Lina offers EMDR and trauma-informed psychotherapy, with attention to attachment, emotional safety, and individual readiness.
Complex trauma often develops through repeated or prolonged experiences rather than one isolated event.
It can affect how you experience safety, relationships, emotions, boundaries, identity, trust, and even your sense of who you are.
You may understand why you react the way you do and still find that insight alone doesn’t change the reaction.
Therapy can help you work with both the experiences you’ve lived through and the protective patterns your mind and body developed to survive them.
Lina may support clients experiencing trauma-related and attachment concerns through individualized psychotherapy, including EMDR when clinically appropriate.
Sometimes you already understand what’s happening intellectually, but your body hasn’t received the message.
You might experience chronic tension, hypervigilance, shutdown, dissociation, panic, restlessness, difficulty relaxing, or a sense that your nervous system is constantly preparing for something to go wrong.
Charlie and Bonny incorporate somatic and nervous-system-informed approaches to help clients notice these patterns, understand their body’s responses, and gradually build greater capacity for regulation.
A personality disorder diagnosis can bring relief, confusion, shame, or fear of being misunderstood. Some people experience longstanding difficulties with identity, emotional regulation, trust, boundaries, self-image, or relationships. Others recognize recurring patterns without having a formal diagnosis.
Bonny specializes in psychotherapy for personality disorders and complex personality-related difficulties. Her integrative, trauma-informed approach considers attachment, early experiences, protective patterns, emotional regulation, and the broader context of each person’s life.
Therapy is collaborative and individualized. Depending on your needs, Bonny may draw on DBT-informed strategies, IFS, attachment-based interventions, EMDR, and other approaches appropriate to your goals.
BPD may involve intense emotions, fears of abandonment, difficulties with identity, impulsivity, chronic emptiness, or painful relationship patterns. These experiences vary widely from person to person.
Bonny works with BPD and emotional dysregulation using an integrative, non-stigmatizing approach. Therapy can support emotional regulation, a steadier sense of self, and more flexible patterns of relating while also exploring underlying experiences.
You do not need a diagnosis to seek support for persistent patterns of rejection sensitivity, avoidance, mistrust, perfectionism, detachment, self-criticism, or repeated interpersonal conflict.
Bonny helps clients explore how these patterns developed, what they may have protected against, and how to develop more choice in responding to themselves and others.
You don’t need to hit “rock bottom” before asking for help.
You may be questioning your relationship with alcohol or another substance, trying to cut back, considering sobriety, returning to recovery after a setback, or simply wondering why something that once helped you cope has started taking up more space in your life.
Jennifer works with adults across different stages of change using a non-judgmental, trauma-informed approach that incorporates Motivational Interviewing, harm-reduction principles, and relapse-prevention work.
You don’t need to arrive completely ready to change.
Therapy can start with understanding where you are.
Recovery isn’t only about stopping a behaviour. It’s also about creating a life that makes change sustainable.
Jennifer supports clients with identifying triggers, understanding high-risk situations, developing coping strategies, strengthening support systems, navigating setbacks, and rebuilding routines and relationships.
Therapy can also explore the emotions, trauma, stress, loneliness, or unmet needs that may sit underneath substance use.
Substance use and recovery can affect trust, communication, intimacy, finances, responsibilities, and emotional safety within a relationship.
Jennifer provides individual and couples therapy for people navigating the relational impact of addiction and recovery, including partners who aren’t sure how to support someone they love without becoming responsible for that person’s recovery.
Relationships can activate some of our deepest fears and most automatic protective patterns.
You might find yourself becoming anxious about rejection, shutting down during conflict, overthinking interactions, struggling to set boundaries, taking responsibility for other people’s emotions, or repeatedly ending up in familiar relationship dynamics.
Therapy can help you understand both what’s happening between you and others and what happens inside you when connection feels uncertain.
Lina works with relationship and attachment concerns and offers individual and couples psychotherapy in English and Chinese.
Couples therapy can help when the same conversations keep turning into the same arguments, or when you’ve stopped having the conversations altogether.
Bonny works with couples navigating communication difficulties, trust and attachment wounds, emotional disconnection, recurring conflict, and complex relationship patterns.
Jennifer works with couples experiencing relationship concerns, including the impact of substance use, addiction, or recovery.
The goal isn’t to determine who is right.
It’s to understand the cycle you’ve become caught in and create different ways of responding to each other.
Lina offers couples and relationship counselling, drawing on attachment-informed and emotionally focused approaches.
Families are systems. When one relationship changes, the effects can be felt throughout the family.
Bonny works with families navigating conflict, communication difficulties, boundaries, changing roles, parent-child relationships, neurodivergence, mental health concerns, and major transitions.
Family therapy creates space to understand not only what each person is doing, but the patterns that develop between family members.
Therapy should not be another place where you need to explain, defend, or minimize who you are.
Charlie provides LGBTQ+ affirming, trauma-informed, and neurodivergent-affirming therapy for clients exploring identity, sexuality, relationships, coming out, family dynamics, belonging, self-esteem, and major life transitions.
Your identity isn’t the problem therapy is trying to solve.
Instead, therapy can provide space to understand your experiences, relationships, needs, and sense of self.
Graduation, career changes, relationships, parenthood, separation, relocation, identity exploration, and other major transitions can leave you wondering:
Who am I now? What do I actually want? What still fits?
Charlie supports clients navigating periods of uncertainty and change while exploring identity, values, relationships, expectations, and the direction they want their lives to take.
Student therapist Patricia brings a bicultural perspective to transitions involving immigration, cultural adjustment, family expectations, and belonging, in English or Portuguese.
Student therapist Ciaran works with identity, self-esteem, and the transitions of young adulthood.
Pregnancy, postpartum, and becoming a parent can bring joy alongside anxiety, exhaustion, grief, identity changes, relationship shifts, guilt, and expectations that don’t always match reality.
Charlie and Jennifer provide an affirming space for clients navigating perinatal and postpartum anxiety, low mood, overwhelm, identity changes, relationship concerns, and adjustment to parenthood.
You don’t have to be struggling “enough” to deserve support during this transition.
Living with chronic pain or persistent physical symptoms can affect much more than your body.
It can change your mood, identity, relationships, work, independence, routines, and sense of what your future will look like.
Charlie provides psychological support for the emotional and nervous-system impact of chronic pain and ongoing physical symptoms, integrating trauma-informed, somatic, and nervous-system approaches.
Psychotherapy doesn’t assume that pain is “all in your head.” Instead, it creates space to work with the emotional, relational, and psychological impact of living with a body that may feel unpredictable or difficult to trust.
Grief doesn’t follow a schedule.
Loss can include the death of someone you love, the end of a relationship, changes in health or ability, infertility, pregnancy loss, career changes, migration, or the loss of a future you expected to have.
Therapy can provide space to experience grief without being pressured to “move on,” while gradually finding ways to carry what happened alongside the life that continues.
Lina supports clients navigating grief, loss, and the emotional impact of difficult transitions.
Change can be difficult even when it’s something you chose.
Starting university, changing careers, becoming a parent, ending a relationship, moving, entering recovery, receiving a diagnosis, or realizing that an old version of your life no longer fits can bring uncertainty alongside possibility.
Therapy can help you slow down, understand what’s changing, clarify what matters to you, and make room for the person you’re becoming.
Creative expression can be one way of exploring experiences, feelings, and relationships within psychotherapy.
Sometimes it is difficult to find words for an experience. Art-based approaches can offer another way to explore thoughts, emotions, and personal meaning in a therapeutic setting.
Sylvia incorporates art therapy as a modality within psychotherapy, rather than as a separate service category. She offers supervised student therapy through Théla's Affordable Therapy Program, with in-person and virtual options.
You do not need artistic experience or skill to explore whether this approach may be a fit.
Explore a clinician whose areas of practice align with your concerns. You can begin with a consultation.
ADHD, neurodivergence, EMDR, trauma, chronic pain, identity, burnout, and nervous-system concerns.
Meet Charlie →EMDR, trauma, attachment, anxiety, grief, and couples counselling in English and Chinese.
Meet Lina →Anxiety, mood concerns, addiction and recovery, substance use, and relationship or couples concerns.
Meet Jennifer →Supervised student therapist incorporating art therapy into affordable in-person and virtual psychotherapy.
Meet Sylvia →Supervised student therapists offering affordable virtual individual and couples psychotherapy.
Affordable Therapy Intake →Personality disorders and BPD, complex trauma, attachment, emotional regulation, couples, family therapy, and neurodivergent teens.
Meet Bonny →A consultation is a chance to share what is happening, ask questions, and explore the kind of support that may be right for you.
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